Friday, July 23, 2010

No Sunshine

What sustains a friendship?

  • Is it the amount of time you spend together?
  • The number of times you were there for each other through bad times?
  • The activities you indulge in together?
  • The fact that you share secrets with each other?
  • Having common goals and interests?
So what actually sustains friendships? This is a tough nut to crack, which many would feel that they know it well enough. Why does it seem that you would get marked for the slightest mistake you make or even some unintended negligence given? Yet for all the times you were there for them, they just choose not to remember? What does one get out of just remembering all the bad things?

Does being straightforward mean that you are bad? That you are not doing the right thing to a friend? Shouldnt friends be straightforward with each other? I personally feel that it is important to tell my friends things that are true, and not say things that will make them feel better at the point of time yet would sink back into the problem soon enough.

Life isnt a bed of roses whereby you could have all your worries/burdens/problems/unhappiness cushioned. Should we actually take things with a pinch of salt? YES WE SHOULD.

I really have no idea where this post is heading to, but I certainly have ALOT of queries that are in need of answers. Probably when im in a better state of mind, i'd draft out a proper post regarding friendship. My apologies, Sorry.

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